No Good VERY Bad Day.

Oh man! Talk about a crazy case of the Mondays. Last week I returned to work and ended my first week back with Annabelle looking up at me after nursing with a big smile, couldn't be happier. It hasn't been easy returning to work. Wondering if I'm doing the right thing. My mom is team awesome and has been coming into town Sunday- Thursday. Knowing Annabelle's in good loving hands has made it easier...until today.

It was one thing after another today. Took every bone in my body to keep my head above water but I know at the end of the week we get to have three days together. As much as it kills me it makes our time together worth a million bucks.

Two months ago we were getting ready for our first night has a family. I can't believe Annabelle is already two months today! She has made me a better person, wife, daughter, friend, sister. I've been pushed to my limits, mentally and physically. When my water broke I was flooded with so many emotions. I couldn't think past am I gonna be good enough. Today has I was crying while pumping I realized I am good enough. I took ahold of this D-MER. It continues to push my marriage and personal relationships but I will continue to fight. This past week I just wanted to throw in the towel but what good will that do. I am doing the best I can and that's all I can ask of myself.

XoXo

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